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Barbara K.
Quit Date: December 23, 2004
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Posted: December 13, 2008 4:04 AM Post subject: Letting Go |
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I think that I am finally starting to let go of my lost marriage with my ex. Things got complicated when he passed a year ago as we were only divorced for a few months when he passed. I feel as though I am now moving forward instead of living in the past. I found out that my ex husband's mom passed last month and at 1st I was shocked. It is still hard to believe she is gone. I still feel as though my life will move forward. I've had a couple of years at the end of my marriage that I didn't see my mother-in-law so there's been more distance between her and I than my ex and I. She was also a big trouble maker in my marraige but then again most in-laws can be a pain. The only thing I want to hold onto now is what I have learned from it. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Blessings,
Barbara K. |
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Mary Dude
Quit Date: June 15, 2004
Posts: 4803 Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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Posted: December 13, 2008 8:37 PM Post subject: |
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Great perspective Barb!! Keep it moving forward!! You have a bright future.... _________________
Mary D.
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Worry doesn't help tomorrow's troubles, but it does ruin today's happiness! |
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pinkpearl
Quit Date: June 30, 2007
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Posted: December 14, 2008 6:49 PM Post subject: |
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"The only thing I want to hold onto now is what I have learned from it."
What wise words barbara!!
Hope your doing well. _________________
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Gidget
Quit Date: March 14, 2008
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Posted: December 14, 2008 9:37 PM Post subject: |
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Walk your path, Barbara. Allow yourself to feel everything you are supposed to feel. You are doing terrific!
Hugs
Tia _________________
My choice; my responsibility; win or lose, only I hold the key to my destiny.
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kevin Site Admin
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Posted: December 15, 2008 10:46 AM Post subject: |
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good thoughts, barbara. _________________
keep choosing life!
kevin
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Barbara K.
Quit Date: December 23, 2004
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Posted: December 15, 2008 6:49 PM Post subject: |
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Thank you Mary, Pearl, Kevin, and Gidget.
Onward I go. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Blessings,
Barbara K. |
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