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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: December 13, 2008 4:04 AM    Post subject: Letting Go Reply with quote

I think that I am finally starting to let go of my lost marriage with my ex. Things got complicated when he passed a year ago as we were only divorced for a few months when he passed. I feel as though I am now moving forward instead of living in the past. I found out that my ex husband's mom passed last month and at 1st I was shocked. It is still hard to believe she is gone. I still feel as though my life will move forward. I've had a couple of years at the end of my marriage that I didn't see my mother-in-law so there's been more distance between her and I than my ex and I. She was also a big trouble maker in my marraige but then again most in-laws can be a pain. The only thing I want to hold onto now is what I have learned from it.
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Mary Dude



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PostPosted: December 13, 2008 8:37 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Great perspective Barb!! Keep it moving forward!! You have a bright future....
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PostPosted: December 14, 2008 6:49 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

"The only thing I want to hold onto now is what I have learned from it."

What wise words barbara!!
Hope your doing well.
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PostPosted: December 14, 2008 9:37 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Walk your path, Barbara. Allow yourself to feel everything you are supposed to feel. You are doing terrific!
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kevin
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PostPosted: December 15, 2008 10:46 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

good thoughts, barbara. Smile
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: December 15, 2008 6:49 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Mary, Pearl, Kevin, and Gidget.

Onward I go.
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