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engaged511



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January 11, 2010

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PostPosted: January 21, 2009 7:21 PM    Post subject: Day Three Reply with quote

So it's not that bad, not as bad as some other times. The big hang-up right now is that my fiancee is my quit buddy and she's caving as we speak. And that kinda sorty makes me want to cave in too. But I can't. So I will do dishes and read these boards, and work. Grr.
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pinkpearl



Quit Date:
June 30, 2007

Posts: 1667
Location: Illinois

PostPosted: January 21, 2009 9:05 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dont cave, you can do it, if you
really want too.
I smoked for 28 years and with this
board and the wonderful peeps here
im still quit, almost 19 months!!!
Read read read on here. very good suggestions.
just go day by day and dont smoke Smile
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kevin
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Location: cincinnati, oh

PostPosted: January 22, 2009 12:58 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

you can't control what anybody else does; you can only control what you do. you're smart not to base your choice whether or not to smoke on something you can't control.

but be aware of what's going on for you around that choice: it sounds as if you're in "depriving myself and feeling sorry for myself because of it" mode. turn that around; you're making a positive choice, not depriving yourself of anything worth having.

keep it going! Smile
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Kissimee



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Location: St. Louis, MO

PostPosted: January 22, 2009 10:39 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Engaged511....After 72 hours, the nicotine is gone which means now it's a mental game. If you continue to feed negative thoughts about not smoking, you will end up giving in. You have to be positive about this quit...that it is the best thing you have ever done...that you are no longer killing yourself, poisoning yourself....

I highly suggest you go to FFSonline and read some of the lessons. This is a great thing you are doing for yourself. Your fiancee will come around...just keep yourself healthy.

Good luck, post often, We're so proud of you!!!
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erickg23



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Posts: 119
Location: Elkridge, MD

PostPosted: January 22, 2009 11:32 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stay strong stay on the boards go to www.whyquit.com read the stories.

Good luck,

Erick!
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Mary Dude



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Location: Pittsburgh, PA

PostPosted: January 23, 2009 12:45 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

its your quit...and up to you...choose freedom!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!!
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Worry doesn't help tomorrow's troubles, but it does ruin today's happiness!
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engaged511



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PostPosted: January 23, 2009 7:21 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I got through the day. things feel better now. thanks!

I think she's a little jealous and bitter, but that's her problem. Wink
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pinkpearl



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PostPosted: January 23, 2009 11:08 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

good for you!! keep at it, dont give up,
you wont regret it......
if you smoke, you wont like yourself....
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SarahTeechz



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January 22, 2009

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PostPosted: January 23, 2009 11:22 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm...sometimes when I'm jealous, I get angry...and sometimes when I'm angry....I work harder. Maybe you will inspire her to work harder.

Keep up the good choices!

--Sarah
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