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Barbara K.
Quit Date: December 23, 2004
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Posted: February 23, 2005 5:14 AM Post subject: Always Big Fat Lies |
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My husband never seems to stop amazing me how many big fat lies he can tell me. It seems since my mom passed away him and I have been fighting almost every other day..!! Now that I no longer have my mom to go see, my husband thinks he should not have to take me anywhere to see my other family or friends. Of course, my husband still insists on me going to see his family who hasn't come to see me or called me since my mom passed. While I know of all the problems my in-laws have seemed to cause me in my marriage, my husband is just like them with the lying and mind games, insults, and cotrol. I am not going to let it continue to eat away at me too much because I have a plan in action to get myself independent of him. So this is just mini rant for now.
Blessings, _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Blessings,
Barbara K. |
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kjsblue
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Posts: 756 Location: Nebraska
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Posted: February 23, 2005 10:41 AM Post subject: |
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I wish I had the direct quote, but Christopher Robin said to Pooh - you're smarter, stronger, and braver than you think you are...same applies to you Barbara.
Kris
Six months, two weeks, one day, 8 hours, 7 minutes and 43 seconds. 3986 cigarettes not smoked, saving $797.52. Life saved: 1 week, 6 days, 20 hours, 10 minutes. _________________
If you can imagine it, you can achieve it; if you can dream it, you can become it -- William Arthur Ward
Q.D. August 8th, 2004 |
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kannprint
Quit Date: April 10, 2004
Posts: 4988 Location: St. Louis, MO
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Posted: February 23, 2005 11:48 AM Post subject: |
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You've sure been going through some difficult times and you deserve better. Sure wish I could do something to help but, since I can't physically assist you, I'll pray for an easing in your life. Hang in there, Barbara, things will get better. _________________
LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, LOVE MUCH.
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jahunta
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Posts: 1129 Location: Silicon(e) Valley, CA
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Posted: February 23, 2005 1:17 PM Post subject: |
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Barbara,
YOU GO, GIRL!!!
This is my mini-reply to your mini-rant!!
Nita _________________
Quitting is Living!!!
QD: 2/15/04 |
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kevin Site Admin
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Posts: 9538 Location: cincinnati, oh
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Posted: February 23, 2005 2:44 PM Post subject: |
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kris wrote: |
I wish I had the direct quote, but Christopher Robin said to Pooh - you're smarter, stronger, and braver than you think you are...same applies to you Barbara. |
"You're braver than you believe,
and stronger than you seem,
and smarter than you think."
~ Christopher Robin _________________
keep choosing life!
kevin
the zen of the quit |
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Seabrez
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Posts: 4458 Location: Gulf Coast
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Posted: February 23, 2005 6:40 PM Post subject: |
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Barb,
Someone once told me, ....don't make any rash decisions right now! Same applies to you. When Dad pasted, they advised us (especially Mom) not to make any major decisions for at least a year. With just losing your Mom and being fairly early in the quit, maybe you are in the jaws of raw emotion right now. Now hear me out....I know, I just had a big blow up with my hubby this morning. And I also know, that if I were "being normal", it probably wouldn't have happened. It's the rollercoaster of emotions. So, please think long and hard and give yourself some breathing and cooling off time before you jump into anything. Just a small piece of advice...I know I don't know your situtation, but I'm relying on the common sense of the emotional response from 2 very life changing circumstances that have happened in your life recently.
Love Ya _________________
Living in Freedom
Deb
Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come. 2 Corn 5:17 NASB |
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Mindy
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Posted: February 23, 2005 8:35 PM Post subject: |
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Barbara,
My thoughts will be with you. I am praying you find peace within your life very, very soon. You so deserve it.
Love and Hugs, |
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Fightn4life
Quit Date: October 23, 2003
Posts: 1573 Location: Loysburg, PA
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Posted: February 23, 2005 10:40 PM Post subject: |
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Barbara...you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish so much life could be a bit more positive for you.
I am so sorry. Hang in there I pray it will get better.
Sandyz
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"Keep your heart open to dreams. For as long as there's a dream, there is hope, and as long as there is hope, there is joy in living."
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Barbara K.
Quit Date: December 23, 2004
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Posted: February 23, 2005 11:47 PM Post subject: |
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Hi All,
I've calmed down a lot and do not plan on making an major changes just yet. It is good to know though to not have any major change for at least a year. Thanks.
Blessings, _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Blessings,
Barbara K. |
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marw
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Posts: 3634 Location: Chicago, IL
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Posted: February 24, 2005 12:04 AM Post subject: |
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Hi, Barbara,
It's just me on my slow, old computer. Just wanted to say Hi, and you are a treasure to me!! Keep strong. You are a wonderful person--the best. You will know exactly what to do and when. You are da woman!!!
Love,
Margaret |
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Cowgirl UP!
Quit Date: July 26, 2004
Posts: 5029 Location: Ala
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Posted: February 24, 2005 12:09 AM Post subject: |
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Barb,
I wish you happiness and love but I want you to be safe in whatever decisions you decide to make...be careful, strong, calm and rational at all times.
Kay _________________
All with a little help from my friends, COWGIRL UP |
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earthspirit
Quit Date: February 18, 2005
Posts: 27 Location: Fort Worth
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Posted: February 24, 2005 5:17 PM Post subject: |
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I believe you should strive to be independent, just because you are does not mean you have to be. I know that Feeling independent when you are on your own or with someone is just a boost to your moral.
I pray for you to find PEACE in your heart. _________________
Take a deep breath,
Laugh out loud.
Reach out and hold the hand of life.
Chris |
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