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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: October 12, 2005 10:24 PM    Post subject: I'm a Wreck Reply with quote

After getting mad at my husband not long ago for trying to get a feel, he asked me why not? I told him anyone who puts a cat before their wife doesn't deserve sex. He said then he was going to bring the cat in from outside and I said, "yea, and I'll have you both removed" I am allergic to cats. He then told me to leave right now and I told him I would but that it will take time for me to find a place. He didn't say any more after that before he went to bed. Things were already tense between him and I and I'm afraid this will make things more difficult to live with him until I can get out.

I may just tell him to give me my portion of the house so I can buy a trailer somewhere. He's already told me once before he would fight for the house so I wouldn't get anything but I know better. At least I think I do, this is my 1st marriage and his 4th so he may know the ins and outs.

Blessings,
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Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Blessings,
Barbara K.
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Deb



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Location: North Carolina (Originally New York)

PostPosted: October 13, 2005 8:15 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

OMG Barb! Sad I suggest that you go and see a lawyer because nobody should be treated this way. I don't think I would move out, before talking to a lawyer because, He might be able to charge you with abandonment. I'm not a lawyer but, you really need to get some advice from someone before things get out of hand.

Your in my prayers.

Deb
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Seabrez



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PostPosted: October 13, 2005 7:05 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barb,

Bless your heart!!! Here's a big Hug for you {{{{{{{BARB}}}}}}}

By your post, it sounds like you have made a decision to leave your husband. Have you really made the final decision to divorce him? Or are you just ticked right now and ranting? Either way...you search your heart and do what you believe you need to do for you.

I'll be praying for you Barb. Just stay strong!! And don't leave the house!! You have as much right to be there as he does!!! As I say...don't let him try to pull the wool over your eyes by threatening you with fear and control.

Love and Hugs
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Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come. 2 Corn 5:17 NASB
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Simone



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PostPosted: October 28, 2005 9:33 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

All I can say is stay strong & believe in yourself.Sending prayers your way Barb.

Bless.

Simone
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