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Chrissy



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PostPosted: January 22, 2004 4:57 PM    Post subject: Finally got brave enough for the next change Reply with quote

Last nite i woke up (230am) and suddenly had the strength to make a move. I went downstairs and told the ex I wanted him out in a few months time. (for those of u who dont know I have been living with the ex for over 2 1/2 years-he lives in the basement) I just told him how i felt, we both need to move on, I cant live this way anymore and even though its gonna be hard for me finacially , it will be worth it to finally have that last thread broken and gone. I think Patrick has given me this strength and even if it ends up not working out with him....I needed to do this for myself. Its been so hard living this way for so long.....stagnant....waiting...and Ed was very understanding and kind through it all last nite. He said he would leave peacefully. Asking how much i need money wise for the kids,, and saying he still will be a dad for them. This was a big major step for me....I feel a large weight lifted from my shoulders and I feel lighter now in my spirit. My life has just begun.....and i want to live!!! <<<smiles>>> I didnt even wanna smoke!!! Proud of myself for that also!~!~ Chrissy~
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wlittle



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Location: Madison, WI

PostPosted: January 22, 2004 5:45 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

How wonderful Chrissy. What courage it takes to change!
You did great, and without smoking!
I takes alot to move on. But to also move on when life will be harder.
Is quite the accomplishment! Congradulations Chrissy for growing.
I envy you, and hope I can continue in life as you have showen us.

Best wishes,
Wanda
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PostPosted: January 23, 2004 8:28 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

good for you, Chrissy - i'm glad to hear that Ed was reasonable about it, too - best of success in your next step!
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SueM



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PostPosted: January 23, 2004 10:27 AM    Post subject: YAAAHOOOOO!!!!!! Reply with quote

Oh, this is good news Chrissy. Good for you for taking that step and good for Ed for being a good dad and honoring his responsibilities. I'm so very happy for you.
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