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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: February 27, 2006 11:14 AM    Post subject: How much can one Person take? Reply with quote

Crying or Very sad Okay, I went to see my mother-in-law about a week ago for the 1st time in over a year. She insulted me the whole day and my husband stood up for her. My husband stays in the neighborhood bar from about 7 a.m. until 1:30 every day of his vacation that he's in town. He comes home and is in no mood to talk because he's had his daily social. Then yesterday he yells at me all day because I either get the wrong thing for him or because I cannot find what he asks me to get for him. Then this morning I woke up early and crawled in the bed with him. We have separate beds for the reason mentioned thereafter. He pokes me just as hard as he could with his knees in the back of my legs saying to bend my knees. Then he says, you're not going to do any of that silly stuff anymore with the web design are you? I hate that SOB right now. I am really going to have a hard time with him when I go back to school next month. He's going to really whine and complain when my care for him slackens up because I am busier. God help me. My husband acts like such an angel when we're around others so everyone thinks I'm crazy. Okay, maybe not, but people seem to think I should learn to deal with my marriage for security considering my disabilities. It is true that I left my husband twice last year and could not find my own housing. But why stay in a loveless marriage? Whenever I try to better myself I get knocked down by my husband or his mom. It's like I am stupid to them and not able to do anything worth a damn. I do not know how to deal with such a hateful mother-in-law. I went to see her to make peace but it didn't work out. I've had enough though of both her and my husband.

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Barbara K.
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Leona



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PostPosted: February 27, 2006 5:16 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Boy do I know how you feel
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londa



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PostPosted: February 27, 2006 8:58 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've tried, now brush the dust off your feet and go on. Your mother-in- law does not want to be friends. As for your husband, only you can help yourself there. If you want out, then you will find a way. WHen one door shuts, the other opens.

Only you can make yourself happy. It sounds like your husband is miserable and wants you that way also.

Your a loving person, I hate to see you getting crushed.

Put God first Barb, seek Him, and ask Him what you should do. Very Happy

God Bless

Love, Londa
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marw



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PostPosted: February 27, 2006 10:44 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara,

Londa said everything so perfectly, I don't know what else to say.

But do not let anything stop your schooling! You deserve a life, too, and one you can enjoy!
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: February 27, 2006 11:59 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very Happy Thank you three,

Londa, you gave some wonderful advice.

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Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Blessings,
Barbara K.
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Simone



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PostPosted: March 30, 2006 8:20 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara forget everyone & take care of you!! I know exactly how you feel & it's simply not worth the stress nor worry.


I am learning of the past few years to 'make my own life' one step ,one day at a time as my partner likes nothing I do anymore- but that's OK I can do something else .


(((HUGS))) Simone x
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