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pinkpearl
Quit Date: June 30, 2007
Posts: 1667 Location: Illinois
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Posted: July 8, 2007 7:37 PM Post subject: a question |
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Hi Everyone-
I wasn't sure where to put this post!!!!
Just being nosey wondering.......
Some of you dont have a quit date posted.
I was wondering if some of you slipped like
I did last saturday, or just because you didn't
fill in the blank. ( I had a few puffs off
my sis in laws smoke while drinking)
I was not sure if I should change my date, or
take it off or leave it???
For those of you that have slipped (that feel like answering)
did you change your quit date?
should I?
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Seabrez
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Posts: 4458 Location: Gulf Coast
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Posted: July 8, 2007 8:08 PM Post subject: |
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I reset mine...but when I've relapsed it's the whole nine yards. Not just a few puffs. It starts as one and then becomes almost 2 packs. So, I literally can't take a puff, cause I know all too well where it leads....right back into full force addiction.
As far as those without quit dates. Several here...the veterans...do not want to celebrate monthly any longer. So, they leave the quit date blank and list it the signature line. The quit date area is programmed with the lunanniversary section at the top of the boards. I'm not aware of anyone here with a blank quit date because they slipped or relapsed and are now quit. It's usually because of the celebrating reason. Also a blank date will indicate that one has not quit yet and is still in the process of deciding when to quit...this is found with members new to the site, or others who have relapsed and still smoking and not committed back to a quit yet.
The rule is generally to reset. Others will post with their viewpoint.
Hope this helps some.
Hugs _________________
Living in Freedom
Deb
Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come. 2 Corn 5:17 NASB |
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alleghany
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Posted: July 9, 2007 9:10 AM Post subject: |
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I do not post my quit date, except in my signature, to not "celebrate" lungaveries on a monthly basis. (I think it was Melody who suggested this.)
I once saw the issue of "actual quit date" get into a nasty thread on ffs....so, please know this is my opinion!
I would reset. I personally consider the first day you did not smoke as your quit date. I had my last cigarette at 11:29 pm on 6/5/04. So, my quit date is 6/6/04.
Congrats on your freedom! _________________
Face your fears.
Quit date: June 6, 2004 |
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pinkpearl
Quit Date: June 30, 2007
Posts: 1667 Location: Illinois
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Posted: July 9, 2007 10:12 AM Post subject: |
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alleghany wrote: |
I do not post my quit date, except in my signature, to not "celebrate" lungaveries on a monthly basis. (I think it was Melody who suggested this.)
I once saw the issue of "actual quit date" get into a nasty thread on ffs....so, please know this is my opinion!
I would reset. I personally consider the first day you did not smoke as your quit date. I had my last cigarette at 11:29 pm on 6/5/04. So, my quit date is 6/6/04.
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I dont want anything to "get nasty" here.
I hope it doesn't, that wasnt my intention.
Thanks for replying!! _________________
My avatars name is moon ray |
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pinkpearl
Quit Date: June 30, 2007
Posts: 1667 Location: Illinois
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Posted: July 9, 2007 10:14 AM Post subject: |
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wow, 25 views and only 2 replys........
Im thinking I should of kept this
question to myself and not asked it!!
sorry everyone....
I changed my date _________________
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texas2step
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Posts: 793 Location: Texas
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Posted: July 9, 2007 10:22 AM Post subject: I concur |
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Look Pink, if you feel comfortable leaving your quit meter as it is, do so. But in truth smoking is smoking, even if it's only one puff. Any smoking at all is not quitting - it's smoking.
If you say to yourself it was "okay to have a few puffs" that probably won't help you stay quit, and it may give you a way out when you "think" you just "have to" smoke. The old "well it was only a few puffs" thing is just a way to let ourselves off the hook.
Your quit meter date isn't as important as not smoking. Nothing is as important as not smoking. Nothing will make you happier and make you feel better than not smoking. But you must make up your mind to do it and stick to it and not smoke at all. At why quit I learned one thing that has helped me a lot - we're all only one puff away from being completely back as we were. Any single puff can take you back to a pack or two a day.....
Never take another puff (that's quitting)
Texas _________________
"You can't always have happiness, but you can always give happiness."
Anonymous
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pinkpearl
Quit Date: June 30, 2007
Posts: 1667 Location: Illinois
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Posted: July 9, 2007 1:32 PM Post subject: Re: I concur |
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texas2step wrote: |
Look Pink, if you feel comfortable leaving your quit meter as it is, do so. But in truth smoking is smoking, even if it's only one puff. Any smoking at all is not quitting - it's smoking.
If you say to yourself it was "okay to have a few puffs" that probably won't help you stay quit, and it may give you a way out when you "think" you just "have to" smoke. The old "well it was only a few puffs" thing is just a way to let ourselves off the hook.
Your quit meter date isn't as important as not smoking. Nothing is as important as not smoking. Nothing will make you happier and make you feel better than not smoking. But you must make up your mind to do it and stick to it and not smoke at all. At why quit I learned one thing that has helped me a lot - we're all only one puff away from being completely back as we were. Any single puff can take you back to a pack or two a day.....
Never take another puff (that's quitting)
Texas |
look up, look up!! I had already changed it!!
thanks for responding _________________
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Patty129
Quit Date: February 18, 2007
Posts: 828 Location: Saginaw, MI
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Posted: July 9, 2007 8:55 PM Post subject: |
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A couple of times on this board I've seen folks respond with something I think is so true and so important......THIS IS YOUR QUIT......do it anyway you want as long as you don't smoke......I'm glad you are smoke free, pink, and I'm glad you've stuck around.
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swaneem
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Posts: 1298 Location: Arizona
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Posted: July 9, 2007 10:04 PM Post subject: |
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Don't ever worry about what anyone else is thinking.....you need to be honest with yourself....afterall..it's your life that your saving.
Just keep going.
Donna _________________
Just when the caterpillar thought his world was
coming to an end..........God made him a
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kevin Site Admin
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Posted: July 9, 2007 11:01 PM Post subject: |
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don't worry about all those page views: remember that every time you look at it, that's another page view, too. besides, a lot of times, people look at a thread and just don't feel they have anything to add at that moment. i do it all the time.
and there are no "illegal" questions here, pink; ask whatever you want. _________________
keep choosing life!
kevin
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lbuz
Quit Date: May 29, 2007
Posts: 254 Location: New York
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Posted: July 11, 2007 8:08 AM Post subject: |
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Hi pink
This is always a topic for debate, but your quit is your quit and whatever gets you through as long as your honest with yourself. I had relapsed a few times and left my date blank until I was a little into my quit quite frankly cause I was embarassed and disappointed in myself and although I don't know anyone in here in the 3D world I felt like I was letting people down. However I am on day 43 and going strong!!! _________________
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jahunta
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Posts: 1129 Location: Silicon(e) Valley, CA
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Posted: July 11, 2007 11:34 AM Post subject: |
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Hey Pink,
I don't know why this is such an issue with some, but I actually took mine off following my buddy Pam. She did it for reasons similar to alleghany I believe, and I kind of just went with it. I post my date in my signature, and I'm ok with that. That hasn't changed. It just means that your name won't appear on the list at the top. It's no biggie. I know where I"m at, and as long as you know where you're at, it's all good. _________________
Quitting is Living!!!
QD: 2/15/04 |
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Pamela
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Posted: July 11, 2007 3:39 PM Post subject: |
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Hey, Nita! How's it going, buddy?
Pink, my buddy just answered for me. You'll find that in the beginning, going for 5 MINUTES can feel like a lifetime, and you need to celebrate every milestone you can.
Having a "lunaversary" is wonderful. Personally, I tried to bake a cake for everyone celebrating being free from , and I was either spending all my time baking, or eating cake! You see, when you see a buddy or fellow quitter's name in "lights", many, like me, feel it deserves at least a slap on the back, or a cake! Truth be known, there got to be so many of us here celebrating, it took up our whole day writing to each other.
After my 3rd year anniversary, I was confident enough that I didn't need a cake every month, and chose to take my quit date off so that it wouldn't automatically trigger my name in lights. That doesn't mean that I'm not proud that I quit at noon on February 17, 2004!
You keep your name in lights, and get all the "atta girls" that you deserve. _________________
FIVE + years of freedom and loving it! |
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