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Pamela
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Posts: 3542 Location: Gardiner, NY
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Posted: December 25, 2007 1:23 PM Post subject: Christmas is better as a non-smoker |
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Hello to all of you out there who are lurking around the site. you're probably wondering.....how can these people who have quit smoking and successfully end feeding their addiction be so happy? Why aren't they miserable, and how the heck can they possibly get through a stressful holiday without smoking?
I never lie, ever. And I want to tell you that each day that passes gets easier, and each holiday smokefree happier...as long as you never forget that you are an addict, and you can never have ONE AGAIN!
As a non smoker, i have more time to shop, bake cookies and be ready for the holiday. i have much more cash to buy gifts. I'm not running outside every 20 minutes to steal a smoke, guiltily leaving my guests to themselves. Or worse, I'm not smoking inside so that my house, and I smell like ashtrays.
I can go on to so many more benefits of being quit....but it boils down to being free. It does take time to get to this carefree stage of your quit, and some effort, but it's so worth it!
We're glad that you lurkers are here, as it means that you are thinking about taking the plunge and quitting. When you're ready, Kevin will always have the lights on here for you to come in and get (or give) support. You'll never be alone in your quit!
So, have a great Christmas, and pledge to make this one your last as a smoker! _________________
FIVE + years of freedom and loving it! |
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kannprint
Quit Date: April 10, 2004
Posts: 4988 Location: St. Louis, MO
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Posted: December 25, 2007 2:01 PM Post subject: |
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I totally agree, Pam. A great message for the newbies and those contemplating the big step to freedom. _________________
LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, LOVE MUCH.
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kevin Site Admin
Quit Date: -
Posts: 9538 Location: cincinnati, oh
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Posted: December 25, 2007 3:35 PM Post subject: |
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true, pam - one of the biggest hang-ups people have about quitting is the (false) fear that they'll have to fight the craving for cigarettes forever - once you get started, though, you realize that every crave is weaker than the last one was, as long as you keep starving them.
i've been free for a little over 6 years now, and i can't honestly remember the last time i had a crave; it's been years, i'm sure.
so jump right in; the hardest part is making the decision to start: once you get past that, it gets easier quickly.
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keep choosing life!
kevin
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Kissimee
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Posts: 772 Location: St. Louis, MO
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Posted: December 26, 2007 11:40 AM Post subject: |
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And I want to tell you that each day that passes gets easier, and each holiday smokefree happier...as long as you never forget that you are an addict, and you can never have ONE AGAIN! |
This is so true! I forgot this and my Christmas this year was much more stressed than last.
Thanks for reminding me about the basics!
Peace,
Tracy _________________
I can NOT control the addiction because if I could, it would NOT be an addiction...BUT I can control ME, the addict.
~Tracy
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Pamela
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Posts: 3542 Location: Gardiner, NY
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Posted: December 26, 2007 1:18 PM Post subject: |
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But it doesn't have to be that stressed, Tracy...you know that. Keep the thoughts about how things are for you now as a full fledged smoker, compared to a few weeks ago when you were still quit.
Has much changed in your life, other than you are back to the addiction? Did smoking really make things better, easier, or whatever falsehood old could come up with? I know not.
Be honest with yourself, and you'll come to the right decision in the end. _________________
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