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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: March 23, 2009 5:12 PM    Post subject: All shook up Reply with quote

Hi all,

The harrassement in my neighborhood has been so bad for quite some time now that I'm so out of it most of the time. What has me so stressed this evening is not knowing what to expect when I have the locks changed on the house my in-laws are trying to take from me. It's in my name and they have had acesss to it for the past 15 months and my lawyer had let them get away with it. Well, I'm ready to fire her. I am just tired of always having so much fighting to do for what I believe in or what I want like my house. My blood pressure I believe could still use some more medicine. I'm hoping when and if I can move into my house my blood pressure will get better after leaving shitsville where I am now.
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kevin
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PostPosted: March 23, 2009 7:46 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

just keep putting one foot in front of the other; do what's next and don't look too far ahead.

hang in there; better days are coming. Smile
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Mary Dude



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PostPosted: March 23, 2009 9:18 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

(((Barbara))) - you can do it! Just one day at a time - and try to take good care of yourself - stress will wear you out - try to get enough rest - I hope it all works out for you.
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: March 23, 2009 11:45 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Kevin and Mary. Yes, I need to just take one step at a time and not think too far into the future. In the morning is the 1st major big step to take. I'm getting ready for bed now and it will be welcomed sleep for sure.
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PostPosted: March 24, 2009 9:22 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I sure hope you're able to engage another attorney. It sure sounds like the one you have is working for the other party and not in your best interest. I'll be thinking about you.
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: March 24, 2009 1:15 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Jo.

Well, I got all the locks changed on my house. It's pretty much cleaned out except for a few items. The stove, refrigerator, and washers and dryers are gone.

I don't know why but I feel as though the sky will fall down now.

I had to show the lock smith proof of ownership. I guess I'm scared of having to move again so soon after moving back in.
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pinkpearl



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PostPosted: March 24, 2009 7:07 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I dont know what to say about your situation,
except that I hope it all works out for you
barbara. Im keeping my fingers crossed.
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Leona



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PostPosted: March 24, 2009 8:22 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barb,

Keep putting one foot infront of the other and work your way through it. My suggestion would be to take time each day to just sit down and clear your mind of everything preferably before you sleep. Read a book, take a shower, watch a movie anything to take your mind from all the stress of the day.
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: March 24, 2009 10:00 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Pearl and Leona. Leona, that is good advice to just put it out of my head at night so I can sleep. It's been hard to do so far but I'll work on it.
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