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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: August 31, 2010 6:20 AM    Post subject: I'm hurt Reply with quote

I stayed up all night last night thinking over my relationship with my bf. I even wrote him a nice letter last night to send to him since he never has time when I need to talk to him. I ended up calling him though this morning before he went to work. I told him I was going to see other people and he could too. First I gave him some examples of how I felt let down by him and asked him if he wanted for me to go on and he said no. When I told him I was going to see other people and he could too he said that would be fine. He didn't even object or try to make amends and that is what hurts. I did not really think he would though so I'm not all shocked. The hurt is still there though.
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PostPosted: August 31, 2010 11:38 AM    Post subject: oh honey Reply with quote

sorry to hear it {{{ Barbara }}}

They say all things happen for a reason

chin up boobies out - that's what my Mama always says when I get sad.... it means be proud of who you are and show the rest of the world you are
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: August 31, 2010 11:41 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Texas and I will do just that, chin up and boobies high.
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PostPosted: August 31, 2010 6:34 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara,

So sorry to hear this. It hurts a lot when people make it seem that they do not care at all one way or another about you/their relationship with you. Do keep your chin up, and focus on you.

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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: August 31, 2010 7:59 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Josh. I'll be alright.
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PostPosted: September 1, 2010 10:46 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

(((barbara)))
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: September 2, 2010 8:47 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you for the hug Kevin.

I'm mostly okay with the break-up with my now ex boyfriend. I just have some resentment towards him for being the way he was. But then I should have known better and that part is what gets to me too.
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PostPosted: September 2, 2010 9:42 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hang in there Barbara,
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PostPosted: September 3, 2010 7:56 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Jim,

My now ex boyfriend called me at 7:30 this morning and I ignored his call. I could tell he was unsure of himself and only used the excuse of asking me what I wanted him to do with the food containers he had of mine to call me. I feel like a heel to ignore him but I feel like it's the best thing to do at this point. They are throw away food containers so it's no big deal for him to keep them. There's not that many of them either.
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PostPosted: September 3, 2010 3:28 PM    Post subject: it's okay Reply with quote

It's really okay to be a heel every now and then Barbara... but down the road you'll let go of the resentment when the time is right and you'll feel better... so don't worry - it will all work out Wink

You have a lot to offer someone so just remember - don't let anyone make you feel less than you know yourself to be....
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PostPosted: September 4, 2010 6:49 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Texas.
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PostPosted: September 4, 2010 11:40 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

listen to Texas...she has it going on......sorry you feel sad Barb....but if I hold my chin up, can't find my boobies.... Laughing Laughing Laughing
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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: September 4, 2010 1:08 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Kay. And I can't either.

I feel much better today about the break-up. For once in my life I feel okay to be without a boyfriend. I'm going to use all this time to spend on me.
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PostPosted: September 4, 2010 5:28 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

and you soooooooooo deserve it !!!!
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PostPosted: September 5, 2010 10:13 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you Kay.
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