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Barbara K.
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Posted: August 31, 2010 6:20 AM Post subject: I'm hurt |
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I stayed up all night last night thinking over my relationship with my bf. I even wrote him a nice letter last night to send to him since he never has time when I need to talk to him. I ended up calling him though this morning before he went to work. I told him I was going to see other people and he could too. First I gave him some examples of how I felt let down by him and asked him if he wanted for me to go on and he said no. When I told him I was going to see other people and he could too he said that would be fine. He didn't even object or try to make amends and that is what hurts. I did not really think he would though so I'm not all shocked. The hurt is still there though. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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texas2step
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Posted: August 31, 2010 11:38 AM Post subject: oh honey |
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sorry to hear it {{{ Barbara }}}
They say all things happen for a reason
chin up boobies out - that's what my Mama always says when I get sad.... it means be proud of who you are and show the rest of the world you are _________________
"You can't always have happiness, but you can always give happiness."
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Barbara K.
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Posted: August 31, 2010 11:41 AM Post subject: |
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Thank you Texas and I will do just that, chin up and boobies high. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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ramblerboy2
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Posted: August 31, 2010 6:34 PM Post subject: |
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Barbara,
So sorry to hear this. It hurts a lot when people make it seem that they do not care at all one way or another about you/their relationship with you. Do keep your chin up, and focus on you.
Josh _________________
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Barbara K.
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Posted: August 31, 2010 7:59 PM Post subject: |
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Thank you Josh. I'll be alright. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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kevin Site Admin
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Posted: September 1, 2010 10:46 PM Post subject: |
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(((barbara))) _________________
keep choosing life!
kevin
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Barbara K.
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Posted: September 2, 2010 8:47 AM Post subject: |
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Thank you for the hug Kevin.
I'm mostly okay with the break-up with my now ex boyfriend. I just have some resentment towards him for being the way he was. But then I should have known better and that part is what gets to me too. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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jimotter
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Posted: September 2, 2010 9:42 PM Post subject: |
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Hang in there Barbara,
Jim _________________
Never give up on yourself. We are so worth the effort. Smoking creates nothing but misery for us and those around us. Smoking is socially unacceptable everywhere we go. |
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Barbara K.
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Posted: September 3, 2010 7:56 AM Post subject: |
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Thank you Jim,
My now ex boyfriend called me at 7:30 this morning and I ignored his call. I could tell he was unsure of himself and only used the excuse of asking me what I wanted him to do with the food containers he had of mine to call me. I feel like a heel to ignore him but I feel like it's the best thing to do at this point. They are throw away food containers so it's no big deal for him to keep them. There's not that many of them either. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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texas2step
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Posted: September 3, 2010 3:28 PM Post subject: it's okay |
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It's really okay to be a heel every now and then Barbara... but down the road you'll let go of the resentment when the time is right and you'll feel better... so don't worry - it will all work out
You have a lot to offer someone so just remember - don't let anyone make you feel less than you know yourself to be.... _________________
"You can't always have happiness, but you can always give happiness."
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Barbara K.
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Posted: September 4, 2010 6:49 AM Post subject: |
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Thanks Texas. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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Cowgirl UP!
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Posted: September 4, 2010 11:40 AM Post subject: |
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listen to Texas...she has it going on......sorry you feel sad Barb....but if I hold my chin up, can't find my boobies.... _________________
All with a little help from my friends, COWGIRL UP |
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Barbara K.
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Posted: September 4, 2010 1:08 PM Post subject: |
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Thank you Kay. And I can't either.
I feel much better today about the break-up. For once in my life I feel okay to be without a boyfriend. I'm going to use all this time to spend on me. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
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Cowgirl UP!
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Posted: September 4, 2010 5:28 PM Post subject: |
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and you soooooooooo deserve it !!!! _________________
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Barbara K.
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Posted: September 5, 2010 10:13 AM Post subject: |
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Thank you Kay. _________________
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn arouind and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
Blessings,
Barbara K. |
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