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bake10
Quit Date: October 20, 2004
Posts: 407 Location: Michigan
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Posted: September 6, 2004 11:31 AM Post subject: BAD MOOD.... |
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I am in a bad mood. I am so mad. Here it is the holiday weekend, I love to golf. My husband made plans with his daughter to golf on sunday, and Monday. He doesn't even ask his wife to golf with him, I feel like I am just here to take care of his house and needs, when ever it comes to having fun on the golf course he asks his daughter. I am so mad, mad, mad, I am writing this because in the past I would go out side and smoke a million cigarettes until I felt better. Now that I don't smoke I have to talk about it. i can't think of a better place to write. I don't have a desire to smoke which is the good news. I am surprised I don't have the urge, because usually in a time like this , this is the first thing that comes to my mind. Well that is it in a nut shell. the rest of the day I am going to do my own thing and pretend he is not in the house. Have a great day. and thanks for listening to me vent. Jeri |
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Cowgirl UP!
Quit Date: July 26, 2004
Posts: 5029 Location: Ala
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Posted: September 6, 2004 1:04 PM Post subject: |
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The event are not funny but the way you tell it! I think I would be looking for another golfing partner...someone you enjoy playing with...so proud you did not smoke or decaptitate him.
Kay _________________
All with a little help from my friends, COWGIRL UP |
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ms_tapestry
Quit Date: October 21, 2009
Posts: 2574 Location: Seminole, TX
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Posted: September 6, 2004 1:25 PM Post subject: |
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Jeri, you can get through this without wreaking havoc and ending up with a police record. I like Kay's suggestion, find a partner and do doubles. Or go shopping. That will learn them
I am glad you posted. The early days of a Quit are such a roller coaster ride. This too shall pass. _________________
Tonya
You must do the very thing you think you cannot do.
~ Eleanor Roosevelt |
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bigdaddyscds
Quit Date: May 13, 2004
Posts: 562 Location: San Angelo, Texas USA
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Posted: September 6, 2004 1:48 PM Post subject: |
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Tear it up Jeri! Keep up the good work! These guys need a fourth.
JOhn _________________
All things are difficult before they are easy.
Thomas Fuller , M.D.
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kannprint
Quit Date: April 10, 2004
Posts: 4988 Location: St. Louis, MO
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Posted: September 6, 2004 5:07 PM Post subject: |
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Hi Jeri,
I, for one, like the shopping idea. CHARGE, CHARGE, CHARGE!!! What fun! _________________
LIVE WELL, LAUGH OFTEN, LOVE MUCH.
Jo |
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Greatly
Quit Date: September 18, 2004
Posts: 175 Location: Melbourne, Australia
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Posted: September 6, 2004 8:32 PM Post subject: golf widows |
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Dear Jeri...
Don't be a golf widow...join a league or go golfing with your girlfriends. Take lessons...get lots of cute golf outfits...get a hole-in-one. I used to be a golf widow. My ex played every night after work, every weekend, every vacation. I had breast surgery and gave birth (alone) because he was in a golf tournament! I could go on but I think you get the idea.
Don't be in a bad mood...there are lots of things to do out there..l.I used to be pissed all the time and it did absolutely no good whatsoever. It only made me miserable. If you smoke then you let him win.
Good luck to you
MrsGreatly _________________
With God's help and yours, I have been free for one whole day. I hope I can say the same thing tomorrow. There is no time BUT the present! |
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LadyHouck
Quit Date: January 4, 2004
Posts: 195 Location: Texas
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Posted: September 6, 2004 11:12 PM Post subject: |
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Tonya
3+ years!
Inside me lives a skinny woman crying to get out. But I can usually shut her up with cookies.
Erma Bombeck |
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justdebbie
Quit Date: August 1, 2004
Posts: 494 Location: iowa
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Posted: September 6, 2004 11:20 PM Post subject: |
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That is cute ladyhouck!!
Put my vote in for shopping!!! CHARGE CHARGE CHARGE!!!
I think girl talk and golfing could work too, find some friends and go have some fun!!
Glad you posted and didn't smoke good JOB!!!
HUGS
Deb |
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Marigrrl
Quit Date: December 1, 2010
Posts: 894 Location: New York
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Posted: September 7, 2004 12:38 AM Post subject: |
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OH! Don;t be upset! I agree with everyone, get out and find yourself a partner!! Don't bum around because your waiting for him to ask you, just go out!! Fire up the plastic and have some retail therapy, and go golfing!!
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bake10
Quit Date: October 20, 2004
Posts: 407 Location: Michigan
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Posted: September 7, 2004 8:52 AM Post subject: |
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Thanks for all your suggestions, I can't stop laughing , you guys crack me up. This is exactly what I needed. I like the prayer ladyhauk, I am going to save that one. I love the charge idea, I think I may go shopping today. Jeri |
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Kerry
Quit Date: May 4, 2004
Posts: 862 Location: Illinois
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Posted: September 7, 2004 7:04 PM Post subject: |
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Ok, I suppose that this is a dumb question but have you ever told him how you felt about this? Maybe if he knew how much you wanted to golf with him he wouldn't keep asking his daughter. My husband wishes I were interested in golf - I tried but I just don't get it. Let you husband know what a lucky guy he is!!! Kerry |
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