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bake10



Quit Date:
October 20, 2004

Posts: 407
Location: Michigan

PostPosted: September 26, 2004 11:17 AM    Post subject: Bad Bad, girl Reply with quote

Ok I don't know what has come over me. I went to my Dads yesterday, picked up one of his cigarettes and smoked it. I have no excuse, I made the conciouse choice to smoke the peice of crap, I am not going to beat myself up, I am going to start all over again. Yes I am mad at my self, but I will learn from this . I have to change my quit date to Sep 26, I know I can do this I did it for almost 2 months, and I did it for 9 months when I was pregnent. Here I go again. Jeri Rolling Eyes
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Katy



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January 4, 2002

Posts: 71
Location: Missouri

PostPosted: September 26, 2004 12:26 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

aw Jeri....that is the pits! but learn from it and don't punish yourself with it. Get a plan in mind as to how you could avoid smoking in this circumstance? If you are early to quitting, have family and friends keep cigarettes out of your reach. if you go somewhere and see them lying there, quicly tell the owner to remove them from your sight.
and then tell yourself this was just a 'slip' not a relapse Be angry about it, but be angry at the junky in you.....not at the quitter. make a new commitment to keep him from taking the control away from you!
Katy
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ms_tapestry



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Location: Seminole, TX

PostPosted: September 26, 2004 2:12 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jeri, I am so sorry you lost your Quit. I am glad you are hopping back in the saddle though. Let's make this one stick! Cool
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terryg



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May 13, 2004

Posts: 177
Location: washington

PostPosted: September 26, 2004 2:39 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jeri,

Oh man, I feel for you........ Sad

It's so great that you didn't just keep smoking though. You stopped and got right back to quiting. Don't focus too much on your screw up, keep focusing on your quit. This time is for keeps !!!!!!! Go girl, you can do it.
Terry
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bwick18



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Location: Florida

PostPosted: September 26, 2004 4:18 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

At least it was only one and you are not back to smoking full time. Good for you for jumping back in the ring!!
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Marigrrl



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Posts: 894
Location: New York

PostPosted: September 26, 2004 4:31 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey be nice to yourself!

I am proud of you for being honest and starting again. Learn from this, and turn into something positive!

We all make mistakes sometimes, but i really see you are determined to quit, you can do it!

hugs
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Cowgirl UP!



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PostPosted: September 26, 2004 5:07 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, Jeri, I am so sorry about your quit but I am glad you are not beating yourself up over it. What is done is done...I am so proud that you are mounting that old horse and getting right back on the track. So you get thrown a few times, now you know when and how to hold on. I am ready to ride the trail if you are???
Kay
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Seabrez



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PostPosted: September 26, 2004 10:35 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Big bummer!!!

Well, like others have said...at least you didn't smoke more, just the one. Glad you went straight back to your quit! That's what matters in the end. The quit and staying quit.

Keep your chin up and keep going! You will totally overcome this.

Love,
Deb
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LANEY



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PostPosted: September 27, 2004 2:06 AM    Post subject: HI Reply with quote

Hi Jeri, I know how hard it is being around a smoker, it's caused me to screw up so many times I lost count. My kids dont smoke around me and have actually cut way back on their own smoking, but my husband wont go outside, or back in his computer room to smoke. Its so tempting, but its true, about 1 puff. I have suckers all over the house, and when we finish eating and he lites up, I grab a sucker. That seems to be working the best for me. In 1 hour I will hit my 3 weeks smoke free! Hang in there, it is possible Wink sinc, Laney
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londa



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PostPosted: September 27, 2004 7:58 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jeri your a great inspiration for all of us. You have proven that just because you fall off the wagon dosn't mean you can't get back on.

I am so proud of you for not giving into smoking. You had one, yes, but you went right back to your quit! That is something to be proud of.

Very Happy

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Love, Londa
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Hope



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PostPosted: September 27, 2004 9:19 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

damn!!

Well good luck - and well done for getting right back to quitting again - many tend to have to wait for the "right" time again (me included a couple of quits ago! ..)
Londa and everyone are right - thats something to be proud of!



Hope
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kjsblue



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PostPosted: September 27, 2004 9:25 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Jeri

I'm sorry you lost your quit. do you know what the trigger or backdoor was? I'm just curious (a nicer way of saying - I'm being nosey Smile )

I'm proud of you for jumping right back into a new quit plan though! That takes a lot of strength to keep from sinking too deep.

Kris
One month, two weeks, five days, 7 hours, 51 minutes and 5 seconds. 1006 cigarettes not smoked, saving $201.31. Life saved: 3 days, 11 hours, 50 minutes.
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bake10



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October 20, 2004

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Location: Michigan

PostPosted: September 27, 2004 4:08 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi every one, thank you so much for your support. kris you asked me the trigger. Well I was at my dads we were outside grilling out, he gave me a beer. His cigarettes were laying on the picnic table, and i thought a cigarette and a beer sound so good on a day like to day in the presence of a smoker. Well needless to say, I will not drink another beer when I go back to my Dads. I haven't smoked again. i am back on the track on a different train. Jeri Laughing
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Melody



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August 19, 2004

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PostPosted: September 27, 2004 4:21 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Same train Jeri just remember not to get off this time as the ride isn't over yet. Laughing Laughing
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skiermom



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July 25, 2003

Posts: 148
Location: Long Island, NY

PostPosted: September 28, 2004 8:51 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Awwww Jeri - ouch! Just get up and start again. Don't feel bad about it - just accept it and MOVE ON. You know what you have to do..........and that you can do it.! Hang in there, ok?
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