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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 5:14 AM    Post subject: Always Big Fat Lies Reply with quote

Mad My husband never seems to stop amazing me how many big fat lies he can tell me. It seems since my mom passed away him and I have been fighting almost every other day..!! Now that I no longer have my mom to go see, my husband thinks he should not have to take me anywhere to see my other family or friends. Of course, my husband still insists on me going to see his family who hasn't come to see me or called me since my mom passed. While I know of all the problems my in-laws have seemed to cause me in my marriage, my husband is just like them with the lying and mind games, insults, and cotrol. I am not going to let it continue to eat away at me too much because I have a plan in action to get myself independent of him. So this is just mini rant for now.

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kjsblue



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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 10:41 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wish I had the direct quote, but Christopher Robin said to Pooh - you're smarter, stronger, and braver than you think you are...same applies to you Barbara. Smile

Kris
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kannprint



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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 11:48 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've sure been going through some difficult times and you deserve better. Sure wish I could do something to help but, since I can't physically assist you, I'll pray for an easing in your life. Hang in there, Barbara, things will get better.
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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 1:17 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara,

YOU GO, GIRL!!!

This is my mini-reply to your mini-rant!!

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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 2:44 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

kris wrote:
I wish I had the direct quote, but Christopher Robin said to Pooh - you're smarter, stronger, and braver than you think you are...same applies to you Barbara. Smile

"You're braver than you believe,
and stronger than you seem,
and smarter than you think."

~ Christopher Robin
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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 6:40 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barb,

Someone once told me, ....don't make any rash decisions right now! Same applies to you. When Dad pasted, they advised us (especially Mom) not to make any major decisions for at least a year. With just losing your Mom and being fairly early in the quit, maybe you are in the jaws of raw emotion right now. Now hear me out....I know, I just had a big blow up with my hubby this morning. And I also know, that if I were "being normal", it probably wouldn't have happened. It's the rollercoaster of emotions. So, please think long and hard and give yourself some breathing and cooling off time before you jump into anything. Just a small piece of advice...I know I don't know your situtation, but I'm relying on the common sense of the emotional response from 2 very life changing circumstances that have happened in your life recently.

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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 8:35 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara,
My thoughts will be with you. I am praying you find peace within your life very, very soon. You so deserve it.

Love and Hugs,
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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 10:40 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barbara...you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish so much life could be a bit more positive for you.

I am so sorry. Hang in there I pray it will get better.

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Barbara K.



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PostPosted: February 23, 2005 11:47 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very Happy Hi All,

I've calmed down a lot and do not plan on making an major changes just yet. It is good to know though to not have any major change for at least a year. Thanks.

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PostPosted: February 24, 2005 12:04 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi, Barbara,

It's just me on my slow, old computer. Just wanted to say Hi, and you are a treasure to me!! Keep strong. You are a wonderful person--the best. You will know exactly what to do and when. You are da woman!!! Cool

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PostPosted: February 24, 2005 12:09 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barb,
I wish you happiness and love but I want you to be safe in whatever decisions you decide to make...be careful, strong, calm and rational at all times.
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PostPosted: February 24, 2005 5:17 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe you should strive to be independent, just because you are does not mean you have to be. I know that Feeling independent when you are on your own or with someone is just a boost to your moral.
I pray for you to find PEACE in your heart.
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