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Fightn4life



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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 8:54 PM    Post subject: Not easy to write/ We lost a child Reply with quote

One step two step three step four
Back step back step our life once more
Pain and sorrow through the rain
A thousand miles we drove in vain

Questions many answers nil
With love and faith this void may fill
Seeing loved ones brought the sun
Through tears and laughter hearts as one

To bury our young this should not be
I often question why not me
I know Gods timing is not our own
I sit and ponder and feel alone

The strength I have reserved for loved ones
Standing, kneeling weight upon me feels like tons
Heart beat racing breath is slow
Hubby needs me this I know

Back step back step life once more
Grief and heart ache to the core
A thousand miles back through ice and snow
Healing starts in our life once more.

{{{We returned home last night around 2am, we made the trip without stopping except for gas and food.

The coroners report was inconclusive as to the cause of death accidental or intentional. There was not enough "stuff" in her system to end her young life, she merely stopped breathing. Questions surrounding the investigation may never be answered.

I was in such a hurry to leave Ark for PA it was hard to let every one know about this loss.

Through it all I remained smoke free, although I feel nothing special as my heart is heavy with loss.

I will be back to catch up soon, my heart remains with you all.}}}

Sandyz


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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 9:01 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy,

So very very sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It's hard to find the words.

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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 9:20 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh, my Lord, Sandy. I had no idea what you've been going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Wat strength you've shown through all of this. I do so admire you.

Please know that you're never alone. Our Lord is with you and will help you through this very trying time.

Please stay strong and know that you're loved.
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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 9:31 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy - You are in my prayers...what sad news... I know there is a hole in your heart - the death of a child is a sorrow no parent should have to endure. I'm so sorry...
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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 9:47 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy,

I have no words, only prayers for you and your family....

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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 10:00 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy I can't even imagine being tested this way. My heart is breaking for you. Take as long as you need to heal and write or pm anytime. I wish you peace.
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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 10:07 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy, I am so sorry. I know that there can be no words to truly comfort, but I sent thoughts and prayers anyway. She was so beautiful!!! Please let us know how we can help you in any way at all.

This happened to my aunt last year, except it was her grandson....but his death was definely accidental....he had a Migraine and went to the ER for it, and when he got home, he took the med they gave him....then he never woke up again. His roommate said he thought he heard him get up and take another pill...it's easy to overdose on something when one is in pain. Mostly likely this is also an accidental overdose. I am just so, so sorry. PLease take care of yourself. EVeryone here will be praying for you.
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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 10:18 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am very sorry Sandy. very sorry. peg
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PostPosted: January 26, 2006 10:24 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy,

I am so truly sorry for your loss. I am so very proud of your strength in such a time of sorrow...you are truly an amazing woman. I can only imagine the force of such a loss....as I have only came close to losing a child in such a way.... my thoughts and prayers are with you....
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PostPosted: January 27, 2006 2:26 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very Happy Sandy,

I am so sorry to hear this news. My prayers go out to you and the family.

Blessings,
Barbara
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PostPosted: January 27, 2006 3:02 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandy
My heart is heavy for you, your husband and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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PostPosted: January 27, 2006 9:41 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Crying or Very sad

There's nothing anyone can say except that we are so sorry you are going through this.

Kevin has been away, but I'll say it for him...."We'll leave the light on..." and you know that it's alway's on here for you.
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PostPosted: January 27, 2006 10:00 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am so sorry. Crying or Very sad
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PostPosted: January 27, 2006 10:14 AM    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sandyz,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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PostPosted: January 27, 2006 1:00 PM    Post subject: Reply with quote

(((((((((Sandy))))))))
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